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(soft melancholy tune)

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- [Narrator] In 1972, in New York City,

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you couldn\'t go out in the street at night,

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and there was a lot of robbery going on.

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Things were so bad in New York,

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that people ran away from all different areas,

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where they were in danger,

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and life wasn\'t so beautiful,

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and the winters were cold,

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and the traveling was miserable,

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and they were ready to retire.

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They ran away.

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They ran to Florida,

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and this place was a boon.

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Anybody that had a job that made a living

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could move to Kings Point.

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It was safe, and such a beautiful home.

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If you want to live upstairs,

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it was a thousand dollars more.

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They claimed that the insects don\'t go to the second floor.

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Upstairs, downstairs,

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what the heck\'s the difference?

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There were people lined up with checks in their hand.

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Take my money, take my money,

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and it\'s so beautiful with bamboo,

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and various colors: green, blue, yellow, orange.

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We\'d never seen these colors in New York.

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My goodness.

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Here you only have to put down $1500,

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and you could be a condominium owner down here in Florida.

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(splashing)

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(birds singing)

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(sprinklers spraying)

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(laughing and quiet chatter)

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- Could you fall in love again?

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No, you can\'t --

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- Well, I don\'t think so.

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My God.

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- You\'re older.

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The feelings are different.

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At 40 or 50, I could see it.

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I could understand it more,

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but at 70?

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No, definitely not.

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I don\'t think any of the feelings are there.

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- Some ladies, they gotta have a male companion

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wherever they go.

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- One croaks, they got another one waiting for them.

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- [Mollie] Oh god.

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- [Woman] The men, the men.

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- No, the women.

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There\'s women like that.

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Oh yeah.

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- [Mollie] Bernice, you know, there are more women

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than are men that are like that.

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- They go through them like hotcakes.

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Then this one dies,

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they can\'t be alone a minute without a guy,

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gotta have a guy next to me,

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\'cause they\'re desperate.

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They gotta have somebody.

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(laughing)

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They gotta have, so.

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If you get you one of these old guys,

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they don\'t take care of you.

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They can\'t.

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They need somebody to take care of them.

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And then you hear them sitting there,

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(raspily clearing throat)

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making noises.

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(gagging)

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I said, \"Ugh.\"

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(laughing)

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And then it\'s nauseating

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when an old crock of shit touches me.

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I\'m not into that for them.

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I don\'t need them.

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Them or their sex or their money, or what have you.

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I\'m taking care of myself very nicely.

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(soft melody)

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- Classic.

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This is classic balsamic vinegar.

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- I don\'t know.

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Taste it.

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Tell me if it\'s any different.

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- Wait, I gotta close the cap,

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because you never close the cap.

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- I just opened it for you.

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- Oh, is that what you got it for, was the cap?

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- That\'s right.

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- Bea got me locked up.

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In a way, she\'s got me locked up,

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and I have not met anybody

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that I really could connect to,

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that I would really wanna go out with,

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so you know,

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I just leave it as it is.

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- When I first met Frank,

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I thought, he\'s a nice guy.

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That\'s about it.

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I mean, I didn\'t have any romantic thoughts about him.

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He\'s basically good, I think,

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until he would cross me.

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He better run for his life.

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- You know, people see you together a lot.

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- Frank, I would say the same thing.

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- And people do assume.

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- And people say, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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I tell \'em, we\'re just friends,

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and they say, oh, yeah.

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- They assume whatever they wanna assume.

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- That\'s how people are.

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- What?

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- Friends.

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- What\'s that?

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What\'s wrong with being friends?

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- I didn\'t say anything.

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Love comes in different forms, I guess.

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Not only going to bed with each other.

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- Right.

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- Concern could be,

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deeply concerned about someone,

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could that be love?

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I don\'t know.

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- [Frank] You know what love is.

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- [Bea] I do?

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- Yes.

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- I don\'t know.

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If I have something to do on a Friday night,

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and going out on Saturday night\'s enough for me.

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- It\'s companionship.

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You know, you got somebody to do something with,

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and it\'s nice.

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- Finish your food.

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- Okay, I will.

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- Kings Point is a place to be where you\'re not alone.

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You\'re alone, but you\'re not alone.

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There are people around,

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and there\'s always something to do.,

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and I would always,

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well, she\'s got a lot to do,

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things to keep her busy.

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Else, she\'ll die.

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(\"New York, New York\" playing)

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I\'m sorry.

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New York, New York.

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♪ I want to wake up ♪

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♪ In the city that doesn\'t sleep ♪

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♪ To find I\'m king of the hill ♪

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♪ At the top of the heap ♪

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- [Woman] You heading up?

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- Not yet.

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Bea\'s gonna get mad at me.

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- I know.

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I know.

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- But what?

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- I know it can\'t be helped.

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- Well, you know.

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She\'s gonna say, you know,

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why did you do that?

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She gets ballistic.

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- Well, she\'s afraid she\'s gonna lose you.

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- She never had me.

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- Yeah, well.

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Well, you know.

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- You know, I mean, Jane\'s a friend.

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I\'m not looking to date Jane.

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You know, I mean,

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I know Jane, how she is.

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She\'s emotional.

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Right, Jane?

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She\'s a lovely person,

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and I don\'t want to play with her.

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You know?

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And that she wants somebody, right?

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- Right.

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- And I\'m not the person for her.

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- I could love this guy.

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- I know.

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But she\'s a lovable person.

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I could love her, too,

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but it\'s not what I want.

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You know?

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I\'m looking for long range, you know?

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You know what I\'m thinking about?

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(Jane mumbling)

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We gotta get out of here.

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(smooching)

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- My friend Frank,

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and that\'s his girlfriend over there.

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And you\'re gonna get hell.

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(laughing)

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- So I know him.

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He cooks for him.

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- You\'re kidding.

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- Yeah.

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- That\'s all she does?

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- That\'s all she does.

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- I don\'t believe it.

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She must do more.

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- No, no.

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He says, no, no.

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She cooks.

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- Okay, let\'s go.

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I\'m ready to go.

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- I guess some people get their pleasure

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from watching someone eat.

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(laughing)

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- [Woman] Everybody needs one friend.

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- [Woman] Oh, we need more than --

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- No, just one that you could really talk to,

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and very close with.

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The others are very good acquaintances.

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- [Woman] Where do you find them, though?

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- You don\'t.

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- [Woman] You don\'t?

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Okay.

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- When you were younger,

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you have made friends friends.

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When you came to Florida,

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or wherever you went,

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and you moved someplace else,

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you made acquaintances, and good acquaintances,

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not friends friends.

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They\'re just not here anymore.

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At this stage,

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you\'re not making friends.

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- Nobody gets too close here.

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They\'re afraid.

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That\'s how they are here.

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Everybody\'s for themselves,

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what they can get out of you,

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I think I told them that,

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what they can, anything out of you.

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They use, everybody\'s a user here.

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So you get to become one yourself.

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- [Woman] Do you remember what made you

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want to move down 20 years ago?

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- [Woman] Yes.

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My husband had a heart attack,

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and he was told,

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you cannot take the winters in New York.

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If you really wanna have a good quality of life,

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get out of New York.

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Go to California,

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go to Arizona, go to Florida.

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I don\'t know how content any of us are.

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I think we have all made our understanding,

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we have all made our peace,

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and we know what it is.

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You try to fill your days,

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as best as you can.

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You go to the malls.

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You go to the Boynton Mall,

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Tuesday, Thursdays, and Saturdays.

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You go to Town Center on Fridays.

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Sundays, they have movies at the clubhouse.

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And then sometimes, you stay home,

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and other times, you play mahjong.

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In other words, you make the very best of living in Florida.

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- [Woman] I moved here 13 years ago,

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because I was afraid to live in the area.

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The neighborhood changed.

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So I migrated here to Florida,

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and I love the weather.

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I\'m happy here.

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I like it,

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and I got to the point

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where you don\'t miss the family so much.

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You know, you don\'t miss them.

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- [Woman] Would you ever consider moving in with your kids?

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- Never.

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- [Woman] Why not?

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- I like to visit them.

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No, I have this health insurance,

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you know, in case, they all have it,

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the home care,

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that\'s if you get sick,

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and you come home, and you have a nurse.

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So I spoke to my daughter-in-law,

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the younger one.

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She\'s, what do you need it for?

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I says, \"Hey, by the way,

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\"if I get sick, God forbid,

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\"are you gonna be there to take care of me?\"

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She didn\'t answer,

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and she\'s very good.

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She\'s very sweet,

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she\'s very caring,

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and she didn\'t answer.

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(birds singing)

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- Knowing what I know today,

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I would never move away.

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In other words,

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I would never away from my children,

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because basically, everyone is very nice,

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everyone has friends here,

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but children are children,

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and as you grow older,

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you begin to realize it\'s grandchildren plus grandchildren,

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and you miss a lot of their,

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I miss a lot of their lives.

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That\'s my youngest grandson, Spencer.

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He\'s 13 years old, and David is 16.

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Now they come here,

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it\'s for five days, four days, a week,

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maybe 10 days.

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By the end of the time,

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they\'re pulling their hair out of their heads,

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because there really is nothing for them to do here.

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- [Woman] Five.

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- [Man] Right there.

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Okay, so you got five points.

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- Five points, instead of three.

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- Give him your cards.

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- Cy, how many cards?

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- [Cy] I have --

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- My husband passed on in 1983.

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Suddenly.

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He had the flu, and that was it.

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- [Woman] And how was life different for you after that?

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- It sucked.

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You gonna put that in, if you can?

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And the friends who you were friends with for 50 years?

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Forget it.

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- [Woman] Why?

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- Because they would go out,

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and I would be behind.

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- Oh my god.

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Look at this.

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- [Woman] It\'s only number one.

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- [Man] See how unlucky you are?

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- [Woman] Frank.

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- I don\'t know how to play this game.

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- Frank, I know how to play,

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but if you don\'t get the cards, forget it.

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- Hey, when we\'re playing,

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you\'re not my friend.

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- [Woman] Hey!

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Be nice.

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- You have five, six, seven, eight of clubs.

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- That\'s a flush.

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- [Man] Who had a flush?

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- Bea.

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You flush the toilet.

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You don\'t have a flush.

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- See how he talks to me?

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- [Man] And I\'m throwing out the two.

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- [Bea] Don\'t tell me.

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Whoo, hooray!

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- Hey, look at that.

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I won a quarter.

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(laughing)

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I\'ll be right back.

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All right?

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(players talking over each other)

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- Hi.

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- [Woman] Hi, Jane.

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- Hello.

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Here we go.

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It\'s been a year since Manny passed away,

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and I was thinking about him,

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so being home alone tonight,

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I just, my thoughts were,

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well, they weren\'t good.

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- How are you?

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- Now I\'m okay.

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(swing music)

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- Hello.

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- Let\'s do our dance, honey.

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- Yeah, right. - Okay.

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(jazz playing)

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- Uh oh.

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(soft Spanish music)

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I mean, we\'re playing cards,

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instead of in there dancing,

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and drinking, we\'re playing cards.

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- Thank you, thank you.

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- Frank, Frank.

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You want a nip?

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- [Frank] Nah.

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- You want a nip?

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- [Frank] I\'ve got (mumbling)

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- You don\'t want a lemon drop?

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(sot melancholy music)

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- When I look around, it\'s frightening.

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There are more singles living here

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than there were five years ago, 10 years ago,

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and it begins to,

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it\'s not that it\'s frightening,

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because this is just the way life goes,

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but you don\'t know what you want to do.

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Do you want to stay here?

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Do you want to go back to New York,

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to where your children are?

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And if you do that,

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it\'s not the best thing either.

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It\'s not.

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They have their own lives.

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You have your life.

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Your grandchildren have their lives.

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It\'s not a very good trade.

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Staying here is just about the only thing you can do,

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because you know people here,

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you have a life here.

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In New York, there\'s no such a life,

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and you don\'t have the time to make it a new life.

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- A lot of sick people, very sick indeed.

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Very sick.

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Both of them.

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Alzheimer\'s.

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- [Woman] We\'re going to the store.

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- Hi. - Hi.

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- Oh, that\'s nice.

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It\'s an outing.

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I once got sick.

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They wouldn\'t come near.

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They thought I was contagious.

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I don\'t know what I had,

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but they wouldn\'t come near,

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on the phone,

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so what are you doing?

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I said, \"I\'m sick.

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\"I can\'t go out.

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\"That\'s it.\"

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And only one, the sickest one in the whole neighborhood,

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now, she says, \"I\'m not afraid.

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\"I\'m dying anyway.\"

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She had hepatitis.

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She says, \"I\'ll do it.

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\"What do you want?

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\"I\'ll go get you anything you want.\"

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She came in, and everybody else wouldn\'t,

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but she came in.

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But not them.

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I\'m telling you.

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They\'ve all been sitting by the pool,

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they\'re chummy (mumbling).

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- Not everyone feels very good,

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and not everybody wants to hear

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what the next one has to say.

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In other words, I don\'t wanna know your complaints.

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I have my own,

00:19:43.440 --> 00:19:44.810
or you know,

00:19:44.810 --> 00:19:45.850
and nobody means it.

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They really don\'t mean it.

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I know I don\'t mean it.

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But it\'s just a form of,

00:19:54.330 --> 00:19:55.720
you just don\'t wanna hear something

00:19:55.720 --> 00:19:58.050
that is not very good anymore.

00:19:58.050 --> 00:19:59.943
Self preservation is number one.

00:20:01.260 --> 00:20:02.613
Always.

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No matter what it is,

00:20:03.446 --> 00:20:04.660
at what age, it doesn\'t matter

00:20:05.800 --> 00:20:09.367
self preservation is number one always.

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- That\'s the story here.

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Pretty over here, isn\'t it?

00:20:15.675 --> 00:20:16.508
Our view?

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The golf course.

00:20:22.971 --> 00:20:25.638
(keys jangling)

00:20:26.512 --> 00:20:29.762
(soft melancholy tune)

00:20:34.600 --> 00:20:38.350
(sirens blaring in distance)

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- [Woman] Is anyone from Kings Point

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gonna come visit you here?

00:21:20.206 --> 00:21:22.339
- Why should they?

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We\'re all in the same situation.

00:21:30.998 --> 00:21:31.831
Alone.

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Try to make new friends,

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which really, is very, very difficult.

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Everything will work out.

00:21:45.121 --> 00:21:48.038
(melancholy music)

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- That\'s lemons.

00:22:04.160 --> 00:22:06.200
Hello, Harry.

00:22:06.200 --> 00:22:07.793
Hi, how are you?

00:22:08.630 --> 00:22:09.900
Yeah, where\'s Gladys?

00:22:09.900 --> 00:22:11.470
Did she leave?

00:22:11.470 --> 00:22:13.450
Tell her to call me back.

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If she ain\'t doing anything.

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I\'m in the house.

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I have nothing to do.

00:22:19.410 --> 00:22:20.854
Yeah.

00:22:20.854 --> 00:22:21.690
Maybe she wants to come over.

00:22:21.690 --> 00:22:22.523
I don\'t know.

00:22:24.180 --> 00:22:25.470
Okay.

00:22:25.470 --> 00:22:26.812
Okay.

00:22:26.812 --> 00:22:27.645
So long.

00:22:33.913 --> 00:22:36.210
Defrost it, under the water.

00:22:50.455 --> 00:22:51.913
- Case of internal injuries?

00:22:55.020 --> 00:22:56.754
- What turns you on?

00:22:56.754 --> 00:22:58.993
- Still, newspaper is in the --

00:22:58.993 --> 00:23:02.055
(laughing)

00:23:02.055 --> 00:23:05.972
(TV playing in the background)

00:23:10.018 --> 00:23:12.268
(laughing)

00:23:19.757 --> 00:23:21.174
- She looks like.

00:23:24.498 --> 00:23:26.748
(laughing)

00:23:27.766 --> 00:23:30.727
(wind blowing)

00:23:30.727 --> 00:23:33.727
(raindrops falling)

00:23:48.550 --> 00:23:50.960
- I don\'t know whether I would fall in love again.

00:23:50.960 --> 00:23:55.960
I think I probably would try not to.

00:23:56.226 --> 00:23:57.059
- [Woman] Why?

00:23:57.059 --> 00:23:58.733
- Because I don\'t wanna get hurt.

00:24:03.050 --> 00:24:03.883
Right?

00:24:07.805 --> 00:24:08.638
- I need.

00:24:08.638 --> 00:24:09.471
I need affection.

00:24:09.471 --> 00:24:10.790
I need closeness.

00:24:10.790 --> 00:24:12.763
I need to be,

00:24:14.000 --> 00:24:15.343
I need real love.

00:24:17.540 --> 00:24:18.650
I don\'t get that from Bea,

00:24:18.650 --> 00:24:22.353
because you know, it\'s not gonna work with her.

00:24:22.353 --> 00:24:23.910
She\'s good.

00:24:23.910 --> 00:24:26.030
I love Bea.

00:24:26.030 --> 00:24:26.863
I love her.

00:24:27.790 --> 00:24:31.780
But I don\'t wanna get too close to her,

00:24:31.780 --> 00:24:34.090
because then, eventually,

00:24:34.090 --> 00:24:35.763
I\'m gonna separate,

00:24:36.780 --> 00:24:38.783
because if I ever meet somebody,

00:24:40.828 --> 00:24:42.628
I mean, I gotta think about my life.

00:24:44.330 --> 00:24:47.740
And my life is not gonna be a real life

00:24:47.740 --> 00:24:49.593
that I want with Bea.

00:24:50.660 --> 00:24:52.660
- Thank you for being the person

00:24:52.660 --> 00:24:54.330
that you are,

00:24:54.330 --> 00:24:56.360
and for being my friend.

00:24:56.360 --> 00:24:57.193
You have,

00:24:59.820 --> 00:25:01.573
you have brightened my life.

00:25:08.560 --> 00:25:09.763
Well, what do you think?

00:25:13.050 --> 00:25:14.883
- If Bea were 10 years younger,

00:25:16.530 --> 00:25:17.903
be my age,

00:25:20.410 --> 00:25:21.800
I would probably marry her.

00:25:21.800 --> 00:25:23.800
I would consider marrying her.

00:25:23.800 --> 00:25:25.650
- [Woman] So why is the age so --

00:25:25.650 --> 00:25:26.763
- I don\'t wanna,

00:25:28.960 --> 00:25:31.203
I put one wife,

00:25:33.508 --> 00:25:35.129
I buried one wife.

00:25:35.129 --> 00:25:37.306
I don\'t wanna bury another one.

00:25:37.306 --> 00:25:38.139
All right?

00:25:39.070 --> 00:25:39.903
That\'s it.

00:25:43.320 --> 00:25:45.183
I want somebody to bury me.

00:25:46.990 --> 00:25:49.082
(crickets chirping)

00:25:49.082 --> 00:25:51.999
(melancholy music)

00:25:55.310 --> 00:25:56.324
All right.

00:25:56.324 --> 00:25:57.157
Look at the nice hats.

00:25:57.157 --> 00:25:58.147
- [Bea] I\'m not wearing it.

00:25:58.147 --> 00:25:58.980
No way.

00:25:58.980 --> 00:26:00.001
- Come on.

00:26:00.001 --> 00:26:00.834
- No way here.

00:26:00.834 --> 00:26:01.921
- How are you?

00:26:01.921 --> 00:26:03.754
Happy New Year to you.

00:26:06.570 --> 00:26:07.403
- Yes.

00:26:08.561 --> 00:26:11.025
We came here at 7:00.

00:26:11.025 --> 00:26:12.077
- Well, there\'s New Year\'s Eve.

00:26:12.077 --> 00:26:13.420
- And New Year\'s Eve party.

00:26:13.420 --> 00:26:15.060
I haven\'t gone for so many years.

00:26:15.060 --> 00:26:18.147
Since we became widows we haven\'t been going.

00:26:19.681 --> 00:26:20.573
It just keeps us busy.

00:26:22.769 --> 00:26:25.352
(upbeat music)

00:26:36.700 --> 00:26:38.250
Ah, that is sad.

00:26:38.250 --> 00:26:39.846
There was a time when you couldn\'t even --

00:26:39.846 --> 00:26:40.800
- They\'re serving coffee.

00:26:40.800 --> 00:26:43.790
- You couldn\'t even get a table for New Year\'s Eve.

00:26:43.790 --> 00:26:44.933
Look at this.

00:26:46.820 --> 00:26:47.653
That\'s sad.

00:26:57.737 --> 00:26:58.737
- All right.

00:27:00.014 --> 00:27:02.764
(door squeaking)

00:27:04.398 --> 00:27:07.332
- [Announcer] Three, two, one.

00:27:07.332 --> 00:27:10.478
- (unison) Happy New Year!

00:27:10.478 --> 00:27:13.337
(\"Auld Lang Syne\" playing)

00:27:13.337 --> 00:27:16.974
♪ Should old acquaintance be forgot ♪

00:27:16.974 --> 00:27:21.614
♪ And never brought to mind ♪

00:27:21.614 --> 00:27:26.382
♪ Should old acquaintance be forgot ♪

00:27:26.382 --> 00:27:31.354
♪ In days of auld lang syne ♪

00:27:31.354 --> 00:27:36.057
♪ In days of auld lang syne, my dear ♪

00:27:36.057 --> 00:27:40.874
♪ In days of auld lang syne ♪

00:27:40.874 --> 00:27:45.678
♪ Should old acquaintance be forget ♪

00:27:45.678 --> 00:27:50.678
♪ In days of auld lang syne ♪

00:27:54.036 --> 00:27:59.036
♪ Should old acquaintance be forgot ♪

00:28:00.798 --> 00:28:05.798
♪ And never brought to mind ♪

00:28:07.575 --> 00:28:12.575
♪ Should old acquaintance be forgot ♪

00:28:15.095 --> 00:28:20.095
♪ In days of old lang syne ♪

00:28:22.617 --> 00:28:27.617
♪ In days of old lang syne, my friend, ♪

00:28:30.374 --> 00:28:35.374
♪ In days of old lang syne ♪

00:28:36.465 --> 00:28:41.465
♪ We\'ll drink a cup of kindness yet ♪

00:28:44.092 --> 00:28:47.675
♪ To days of old lang syne ♪

00:29:00.859 --> 00:29:05.859
♪ When I was just a little girl ♪

00:29:06.480 --> 00:29:08.859
♪ I asked my mother ♪

00:29:08.859 --> 00:29:13.280
♪ What will I be? ♪

00:29:13.280 --> 00:29:15.872
♪ Will I be pretty? ♪

00:29:15.872 --> 00:29:18.720
♪ Will I be rich? ♪

00:29:18.720 --> 00:29:23.371
♪ Here\'s what she said to me ♪

00:29:23.371 --> 00:29:28.371
♪ Que sera, sera ♪

00:29:33.136 --> 00:29:38.136
♪ Whatever will be, will be ♪

00:29:42.459 --> 00:29:46.655
♪ Will be ♪

00:29:46.655 --> 00:29:51.655
♪ The future not ours to see ♪

00:29:54.518 --> 00:29:59.019
♪ Well, well, well, well, girl, ♪

00:29:59.019 --> 00:30:01.600
♪ Que sera ♪

00:30:01.600 --> 00:30:04.336
♪ Que sera ♪

00:30:04.336 --> 00:30:09.336
♪ Que sera ♪

00:30:09.776 --> 00:30:13.109
♪ Ah, bring it down low ♪